Blasphemy! The Horny Christian

Well, it looks like this year is going to be a very prosperous year. lol. However, I've experienced something new tonight.
I've gotten a call just now from a guy who claims to be a Christian who gets off on being verbally blaspemized. LOL. Now, me personally, I do not believe in downing the next religion and such and I do think that it's everyone's right to choose who they would like to be in life. It felt a little different and awkward, but it was something that he requested and so I gave it a try. Turns out, he liked it and guided me through everything he wanted me to say to him personally. Fetishes are a funny thing. I don't really have much to say on this particular call except for the fact that apparently it went great and he was very appreciative to my efforts in fulfilling his fantasy.

If you want to challenge me to a fetish or fetish play with me and you want it to feel new and exciting... Then pick up the phone... Call Me

Excited and Hard

Never fails, just when I think it's just a typical caller wanting to get his rocks off and only look at me, I am always shocked and surprised.
So I was sitting here in my robe and going through my daily routine of being sexy and lucious when I get a phone call from a very cooperative and anxious boy who asked me if I had skype. We exchanged names and while I'm spelling out my name for him, I am changing from robe to sexy cam dress and finished applying my lipstick as soon as the skype call comes and I see the crotch of his pants (Great for me cause now I don't have to play alone lol). I instructed him to take his pants down and when he did, I seen exactly how excited he was from the silhouette of his boxers. He was extremely hard and willing to do whatever it was I told him to do just so he could meet his orgasm.
He asked to see my breasts and so I showed him and kept talking dirty to him. I told him how excited and horny I was and how I wanted to gently kiss around the head of his cock and make him grow even more inside of my mouth. He grew more and more excited and his moans got louder, his breathing patterns were very heavy and the more and more I squeezed my cleavage together and showed him exactly how I would kiss and lick around the crown of his penis with my tongue demonstrating with my dildo, he was full of anxiety and the next thing I knew, he was cumming all over the place. It was actually a pleasant site being that lately not too many white guys have been cumming on cam for me unless they are upside down and aiming their cocks into their own mouths and making a big fool out of themselves just to please my sadistic side of sexual pleasure. With this one, I was caught off guard and quite frankly wasn't in the mood to make him do humiliating things for me, I just wanted him to have a regular orgasm and play with me mutually and just enjoy it like a normal man should and that's what he did.

If you think this is an experience that you'd like to have with me and just want to have some good straight, freaky and sexy fun with me... give me call... I can make you explode just like him.

To complete your call the way this hot boy did and watch me on Skype during our call.....

You will not see me on cam without it... 

Another Shy Lesbian

Well, here I am watching a little TV when I get a phone call about about 3:20 this morning (ten mintues ago) from a caller with a very soft and sweet voice telling me that she was shy and didn't want to say much. This call was a little different for me being that she didn't want to talk too much. I've had calls from "shy" lesbians before, but never like this.

So I tried to pull her to a level of comfort by asking her where she was from, her name and what she liked to do. I got that information from her, but when I asked if she had toys, she said she didn't have any with her. Of course, I carried on the conversation as she seemed like she wanted to just get right to it. It was very interesting because she played along for a while, but I really would have liked it more if she would've just opened up. Being shy is one thing, but not communicating your sexuality is another. When I asked her if she ever dated women before, she said no, which leads me to believe she wanted to just explore her urge to dip in the lady pond and just didn't know how to go about it, even with me. I really wish she would've given herself more of a chance to see that I could have counselled her in the right direction so she could start/continue her journey as a closet Lesbian and helped her come out more. But I am not threatened, nor offended. I know that things like this could be challenging for the first time. Hopefully, she gains more courage the next time she approaches a woman or even make a return to me so that I can help her fulfill her desires.

If you would like to see what I can do with your closet fantasies and desires as a closet Lesbian, then call me now... I am always available to help you explore your sexuality.

*Special* Delivery - From A Cock-sucking sissy

Well, if you are a customer of mine and know what I like, you'd know that I sent out a bunch of special offers today for 5 minutes. I guess this sissy-cuckold wanted to take the liberty of these free five minutes to tell me what exactly was on his mind. And what was on his mind? Telling me how much he loved to be filmed and how he does photography for a site called Ethnic Kink and how he participated in a scene where there was a "big black guy" and his Mistress forced him to suck the "big black guy's" cock and when asked him how he felt about it, he said he loved it.

He went on and on and on the whole five minutes about how he loved being forced to suck cock and how he'd sessioned with some trannies and how he loved it as well because he likes sucking cock. It was pretty interesting how fast and how much he sounded very excited about telling me. Some boys are just eager to expressing their love for being a cuckold and how much they wan to drink cum and that's what this one wanted to do. The good thing is, he took advantage of the special offer that I sent out and he made himself useful to me on my Friday night where I'm doing nothing... lol.

Good Bye "O"!

Welp! Ladies and gentlemen, ladyboys and gentlegirls, I've just got a PM on Yahoo from My "O" that he is no longer serving me. When asked why, he stated that he lost interest in the whole idea of sending and sending and sending and never getting the satisfaction he was looking for. Me, personally, I think that if he would've just stopped bouncing around from black mistress to black mistress and stop pretending like he wanted to serve and just been like the rest of you guys and just did it the easy way and just got off like a normal man would, he wouldn't have this problem but, if that's his choice, I guess I can't keep him. I enjoyed the times that we shared together and I really enjoyed making him bark and wearing those rediculous little pairs of panties that he would wear for me on cam. Of course, he's not the first to do it... but he was the most faithful out of all the sissyboy slaves that I own. He barks the best, he takes commands like a really good bitch and if he was right here, he'd be sitting at my feet while I'm typing up this blog waiting to be petted like a good doggy boy.

The way he would be so anxious to flont his little sissyboy panties for me was just flattering. I really liked playing with him alot and to be quite honest, "O" actually helped me exercise my Mistressing skills even more. He's very obedient, he follows up with my articles, ads me on sites that I tell him to, tells his pathetic little friends about serving me, I mean, he's a really great sub and if there is a Mistress out there that can actually take care of this pathetic little white sissy bitch of a boy, then you're going to find that you have a nice panty boy on your hands. I mean, my other pantyboys have actually read my articles on "O" and actually try to compete when they call, but I don't give them the satisfaction of being as worthy as "O". Granted, "O" is an extremely pathetic pussyclit boy, but that's what makes him great, because he's good at it. He's so worth the dogging around. He actually requested to report to all of my Ebony Mistress Friends and serve them all. We had a small misunderstanding about that (not because of anything he or I did, but because of one of the lines), but he fixed the problem really quick and I like having a bitch boy like that around me. Someone to take care of the problem before I even have to rant and rave about it.

The thing that I like most about "O" besides his loyalty, feminity and constant obedience is the fact that his pussy of a cock looks so nice in those tight little thong panties that he wears. And in this particular pic, he's standing as if he doesn't know what to do with that pathetic little fat cock of his, it humors me so much! LOL! But I know that his stance is only because he's waiting on my next command. And so funny, he made my day everytime he would call me because I knew he was ready to serve without limits (sometimes, because sometimes he would be so damn cheap, but that's neither here nor there). And this is what gets me off about him. He with alot of other people really enjoyed my article, "My O's New Panties". I really enjoyed publishing that beacuse he made sure that I was the first to see them and that made me happy and actually, that day I was in some kind of a flustered mood because of some dick caller that was acting like a pussy and a dick all at the same time and then he called and let me know that he wore his panties while he was having dinner with his family and how he started wearing panties when he went out to think about me. I mean, it was hot shit and I really enjoyed it!

Another great time we had together was when he begged me to let him cum and I finally just allowed him access to cum and I was giving him the mistress tease of his life. Boy, and did he cum alot too. LOL! Just lusting over his Hot Ebony Goddess Love that little cock in those panties must've been throbbing for days and those balls were big and blue, I bet! LOL! It's a shame he has to go now especially since I've gotten my toys in the mail and everything.

We've already said our good-byes and I wish the best of luck to him and all that he does. He really did make the efforts to meet my needs as much as possible, I guess he just couldn't keep up financially. It gets like that sometimes. Being that it's like that, I don't have time to saulk and pout about "O", I need a NEW "O" and I'm searching deeply for it.

Nevertheless, I wish my "O" the best wishes in life! When he's ready to come back, he will always have a place to come to repent, pay and obey.

This time, my new "O" will be financially set and ready to pay all fees and dues on time as well as physically. He/she will not give me any excuses as to why he/she cannot do this or that. He/she will not hang up in the middle of a traning or lesson. He/she will obey. I don't need to repeat these things for you morons, The Requirements are written all over the page!
Let's get started and see what we come up with!

"Yea, You Playin' Games"

Why do I always get the slow ones and the rejects? It's almost as if guys don't want to enjoy themselves or they feel because they are "paying" a girl to see her tits and ass, he automatically has to assume that she has to stand for whatever he dishes out. Money has never made me do that, and why do I feel like I'm a fucking broken record. Alot of times, you guys make it so hard not to hang the fuck up on you.

Now, the whole point to this particular post is to expose (once again) a mistake of the client and his rude behavior. He needed to download Skype because Eyeball Chat is not working for me (I don't know why, but ever since they did their little bullshit upgrade, I'm unable to log in on my messenger, I just keep making accounts, but the shit still won't work) so he said he would call back when he has Skype down loaded. He called back and sent me a video call invite and while I accept and we're waiting, he says, "Yea, you playin games" and then hung up. So I typed him a message saying, "It is not my fault that Skype is taking a long time to start video, I'm over here waiting myself". I mean, let's be real here, it's not my problem or my fault, but I did accept the damn request... wtf?!

Do guys like this jus have no patience or anything or have they've been burnt so bad by other PSO's or in their lives where they have to like make accusations like that? And the sad part about it is, he and I have played before, so why would he have that attitude toward the situation?
Who knows, who gives a fuck. I'm tired of dealing with these jerk-off guys that get angry and frustrated because they want their dicks to nut off... like... wtf?!

The Kinky Militant

I know, where did he come from? But let me tell you something about this sweetheart of a guy. He's so lucious and his cock is just so amazing! He's been calling me for a while now, and it's funny how I never mentioned him before. He is one of my favorites because he is passionate about spending time with me. We do so many naughty things for each other, it's incredible. One thing that he does that I've never seen in my life is stick his dick in between a pillow and get off that way. I always thought it would actually cause unwanted friction, but apparently, it doesn't. He did this for me one day when he was craving to "stick his dick in something real bad". While I was talking to him about fucking the females around his area (in Korea), he didn't mean that at all. He literally wanted to stick his dick in something, so he grabbed his pillow and started fucking it. Oddly enough, that really turned me on and so I broke out my vibrator and was talking even nastier to him. Before when he called, he had unpacked because he had moved and there was clothing and things all over his bed, he found the urge once more, it was so hot to see him fucking the laundry and he fucked it until he came for me. I loved seeing his ass move in and out while he talked dirty to me.

Today, he called me and he didn't even want to get on cam he just wanted to talk dirty, straight. He was willing to do everything that I wanted him to do. We've had a misunderstanding with him saying this before because he wanted me to dominate him twice before but yet couldn't cope with my methods of servitude so to keep from having that little mishap a third time, I just wanted him to fuck me hard like a slut. I wanted him to pound my pussy and power drive my asshole like he's never before, especially since we haven't spent alot of time together in the past month or so. It was pleasure with him because like always, he always cums 3-5 times back to back. It's so sweet having him cum like that. I don't know any guy that can cum like that and go back to back. It's amazing how high his drive is.

I really wish he would've gotten on cam cause I love seeing his big white cock being stroked and milked into all that cum he squirts out.

Bed-Time Servitude

Man, my yahoo list is full of more pussy boys than I thought!!!
All I had to do was announce that I want a pussyboy to serve me before I went to bed, and 5 of em served me up like that. It was so hot.
The first caller turned his cam on and had on his pussyboy nipple chain on(the one that attaches to both nipples, yea, that one) and would just say all of these great things about being my #1 servant and pussyboy and hear to serve me for whatever I desire. So funny, because he made me laugh when I told him to show me his little pathetic cock under his big nasty fat stomach and after he lifted up his stomach, it was this little pathetic piece of cock that I like to refer to as a clit. So funny, cause he knows his little pathetic little cock is a clit. My clit is bigger than his cock! And no, not because my clit is actually big (those of you who have seen my pussy know better than that), but because his cock is really like a little button! LOL! I gave him the finger and told him to go fuck himself, made him get down on all fours and bark for me as usual. I love to make my pussy boys bark, it shows exactly how loyal they are willing to be to serve me. It gets me off in many ways that one cannot understand.
I made him pull on his nipple chain til it hurt and I made him discipline himself for not serving me in a long time. Not only that, I made him pay his pussyboy fee and leave me a 5 star rating. He obeyed. I mean, he's almost just as pathetic as my "O" (although noone will be as pathetic as my "O"!).

The Second Caller just wants to play this straight sissy boy everytime he calls. He wants me to tell him how girls are stronger than boys in kick boxing and wrestling (as if I give a fuck) and look up at my pussy like a pathetic little cunt boy while I'm saying all of this. He's pretty boring, but for some reason, I enjoyed his servitude tonight because he's so full of shit with it. If you asked me, he was a waste of space and dead air. As a matter of fact, dead air is exactly what he was equivalent to, if not, deader (is that a word? in his case, yes!)! I guess what annoys me the most about this pussy boy is the fact that he's always telling me what to say, as if I don't remeber that he's the annoying guy that won't just let me humiliate his pathetic little dickless ass by telling him something as stupid as "Girls are stronger than boys" and "Girls beat boys in kick-boxing". Wtf kind of humiliation is that??? I mean, really. LOL! So, I laughed at him, gave him the finger ONCE because he wasn't as worthy of me lifting up my middle finger numerous times like I did the first caller. God, this pussy is boring... ugh!

The 3rd caller was a cum eater and we've already spoke about that before, He basically didn't do anyting spectacular because he wasn't like my original cum eater, so that was also boring. I just humiliated him and bitched him around alittle bit until he just came and cam on his chest because his cock is not long enough to reach and the fact that he's just not talented enough. But I won't knock him too much, because atleast he wants to serve me and make a cumeatting-slut fool out of himself for my pleasure.

The 4th caller was a panty boy. Also very boring.

The 5th wanted me to smoke. I actually enjoyed this alot (although I'm trying to quit...lol) because he was worshipping my role as an Ebony Mistress. He loved my stockings, my soiled panties, my smoke, my classy way of telling him that he was nothing more than a sissy white boy that should be ready to kneel at my feet whenever I give him the opportunity and everything was great. He actually made my hot cunt tingle a little bit.

The 6th caller was a spoiler and sent a nice tribute and we talked about how he feels that I should get whatever I want because I'm a beautiful black princess. I mean, he was a good litle pay piggy for me! I'm going to see how long I can keep him begging me for more because I need that type of enjoyment everynow and again (more like everyday, but yea... everynow and again...LOL).

GayPride is Coming Up!!!!

That's right. Gay Pride is coming soon and there's going to be a lot of cool events going on for the preparation, during, after and all around. All around the world people celebrate this great event.
Every yeard (except for last year, shame on me), I make it my business to go and get an outfit made for this particular event and I flaunt my stuff all up and down New York City (mainly, The Village Area) with all the rest of the queens, dykes, fags, bulldaggers, trannies, transexuals, post-ops, pre-ops, lady boys and whatever else there is and I have a BLAST!!! It's the only event that I know you can basically walk down the street naked, smoke weed and drink all out in the open with 50 million cops around and noone doing shit about it! I love it, it's great!
So having said all of this, For the next few months, I will be looking forward to talking to alot of the ladies. I've got nice little cute cheap listings for the ladies to talk to me and see me on cam and we can have a ball doing this.

Special Announcement!!!
Ladies, I am looking for a nice hot sexy female partner to go to the parade and celebrate pride with this year. I will be sending out offers, discounts and raffling for the female winner to go along with me to celebrate pride the whole day and night. (To call, click the "Girls Only Line")
The lady that can be the freakiest on cam for me while I'm freaking her back, of course, will win a chance to take me out of a date to Celebrate gay pride!!!

The Winner
Of course, gets to spend the whole Gay Pride with me + 20 free minutes on the phone.
2nd Place
20 Free Minutes on the phone with me
3rd Place
2 Free pics + 2 Free Minutes

Good Luck Ladies and I look forward to seeing you there!

April Passion

It's the beginning of April and spring time is here. I'm just wondering if there is anyone out there with a fantasy of some real genuine romance. Day to day I deal with callers from all over that just want to lust and bust, which is fine, but are there any guys/girls out there that long to look for someone that can really cater to their needs as far as companionship and romance? Hmm, I wonder...

But in the mean time, between time. Today is Friday and I am taking the day off to go out and see the world. The phone world has kind of got me a little overwhelmed with frustration. After having to expose a guy the other day for his silly antics and then more idiots coming right behind that, I have just come to the conclusion that I need a day off. However, I am available to take appointments for live meetings, you can always go to my site and learn more about how to meet up with me. If you are unable to meet up with me, don't want to talk or whatever your problem may be... you can always check out the other callers I have listed under the "Experience More" section of this blog. I need a breather and I will return fresh tomorrow.

Love & Peace
Ms. Joclyn DeVou
xoxoxo

P.S. Some of you inquired about my Live Broadcast, while I'm gone, I will also be working on this... Everything is already taken care of, there's just one last step I have to take to make this officially happen, that way you can call, listen and join in the activities that I have in store. So please stay tuned to that. Ciao!

Another Cheap Bastard Exposed.

See, this is where TS can be better than NF. With TS, the cam is provided only after the call is activated. On NF, you can charge for your messenger ID's and what not. It gives you a chance to make more earnings and entertain on a more personal level. They both have their brilliant differences.

However, NF Services have me frustrated tonight because of some cheap ass idiot jerk that decided to send me a pm on yahoo requesting to have a "consensual webcam show". Now, I am always as professional as possible and patient as I stated before, you guys know this. But I can not keep my cool, patience and my professionalism if a silly cheap bastard that KNOWS he met me on a PAY SITE thinks that I'm suppose to switch up my whole damn game totally and completely just so HE can jerk his cock off? Where are these values coming from? I just don't get it... and I just don't understand it. Is it not enough that my damn lines are cheap and I give quality shows... but now I have to basically do it for nothing?

Exibit A: The Dumb Ass Question.
















Exibit B: Trying to turn a Phone Hoe into a Cam Slut.
I mean like, dude really used the word "consensual" as if he was responding to a fucking craigslist ad and was trying to get me to say the magic words to have the damn ATF bust down my god damn door. I mean, come on. Why even put youself through that. So I asked him, what makes guys like him do this? Not to mention... he only called me ONCE!... ONCE!!! ONCE!!! ONCE!!! And that was about 3 months ago!!! And somehow this is grounds for a damn free show ????????????????????????????????????????
Maybe I'm missing something, but I REFUSE to keep customers off of giving away free minutes everytime they go on their little hissyfits or wanna be cheap. That's not how I do things. And this is how I will continue not to do things. If you're looking to change the bitch, find different bitch cause this one is never going to change. I'll be as nice as possible, but never will I change. And besides... it shouldn't never go this deep!!! It's simple... pay and you will get served!!!

Being that this problem seems to be esculating and I had to stop in the middle of this blog to take a call from ANOTHER GUY who didn't want to by the damn ID's... I will be exposing faces this time so the PSO's will know what he/they looks like so you know what to watch out for. Sorry I have to subject everyone to this, but think of how it makes me feel when I'm busting my ass to fulfill fantasies and in comes along repeated ASSHOLES like the ones I've encountered so far. Do I think he's learned his lesson after me telling him about it? Well... the fact of the matter is... He will now!

Really burns me up inside when I have to be like this toward adults that know better, but still try. This is not a day care, this is a phone sex line. I am not your wife, I can only ACT like her so that means that I really don't even have to cater to your personal malfunctions. Damn!

Well, I'm done with this issue, but I hope the REST OF YOU GUYS out there learn from this shit. It does not make sense to get it for free when you were paying in the first place. This is most likely why alot of these men end up calling me in the first place, because they don't know how to fucking communicate with themselves, let alone a damn woman!

The Scat Factor.

Unusual fetish, but an interesting one. He admired my tits and ass while talking about me straining with constipation. I'm not suprised at this because I get this convo all the time, but what made this particular moment a little bit special, was the fact that he put in time to talk of this and get off with ease. Worship and fascination. Genuinely at that. Made me get more into the convo. I must admit though, I did feel alittle out of place when he asked me to demonstrate what I sound like when I'm constipated, but it all worked out very good. He appreciated it very much and left a great rating. The fact is, everybody's got their something (in the words of Nikka Costa). I am flattered that he would feel more than comfortable to come to me to fulfill his fetish and I can expect for him to call back very soon.

If you have a scat fetish, let me know, we can talk about it anytime you'd like.

All The Single Ladies...All The Single Ladies!!!

Mmm, I'm in the mood for a nice single lady. I want a nice chocolate sugar mama to come and talk to me.
It's been a while since I've had an intimate moment with a female. If this is you, hit my "Girl/Girl Line"...anytime. I wanna talk to you.
I'm waiting...

Clueless

Feel like being dominated by a total dingbat of a valley girl? Ever felt like you could go for Gabriel Union in "Clueless" to dominate you and take your money?
That would like, totally be awesome! Fur shur!
Like I would totally love you to serve me as like your valley girl mistress, like...totally!!!

Passing Submission off for Getting Off

There's nothing wrong with getting off. There's nothing wrong with submitting. There's nothing wrong with not knowing what you want. There's nothing wrong with wanting both at the same time. But to patronize my authorities as a Mistress is another thing. I will accommodate any and everything that you desire, my motto is "Whatever You Desire", however, when you are serving me as your mistress, there are no such things as "accommodations". We can build a relationship and figure out how comfortable we are with each other and that's it! I do not take well to demands while you are serving me. However, I only play this way in slut mode.
Different lines are for different fetishes, you cannot call my slut line and expect to be dominated and vice versa.

I will tell you that, I like to mix the two every now and then though. Should you insist on wanted to mix these two, you can always find me on the Fetish Line . I have no problem showing you my tits, fingering my asshole and telling you to sit there like a good little cock boy and jerk your cock, stroke your balls and lust over me while I fuck myself.

Craving the Craving

The best craving that I crave is with a military guy. When he calls, we talk, we laugh, we joke, and we fuck. Everytime we phone fuck, it's great. We spend time together and when we do, I always find myself exploring something new with him.
I have never in my life watched or seen a guy fuck laundry or pillows and for some reason, that turns me on in a major way. Only because I know that when I talk to him, it drives him so crazy that he wants to get wild with me and do all the things that he wants to do. He craves so bad to have my body, my ass, my sugar walls that because he cannot physically have me, he replicates what it's like to have me, puts on a nice show for me, bends me over and fucks my tight pussy. I love talking to him because I can get so freaky and kinky with him that it makes me crave his calling. I often wish I could get calls like this all the time where I'm on the phone and on cam and bending over and a guy will just want me so bad, quiver at the sound of my voice, taste and smell my sweet pussy and just wild out to the point where this is what I crave.
You make my day, and I want you to call more often.

My Favorite Cum Eater

What makes this cum eater my favorite is the fact that he is the only cum eater that I know has a nice big cock and does not need to flip over and squirt his cum in his mouth. He sits in an upright position and jerks his nice big cock for me and gets all the cum in his mouth without dropping a single bit. Then he swallows.
At first, I thought it was kind of gross (which it is), but then I learned to love it and I enjoy him taking all that cum in his mouth like a man. It's so awesome how he can even get his own cock to his mouth. That's how big his cock is. I enjoy watching this cum eater just entertain me with his talent.
It's so hot!

I'm actually looking for more self cum eaters. I've had many requests for a few cum eaters to eat their cum for me. One attempted, but he didn't get it all in his mouth, plus his cock wasn't large enough, but I do appreciate his effort. At least some got in his mouth, but he wasted the rest on his chest.
Back to my cum eater search, if you can shoot your cum in your mouth for me and entertain me with this talent while I humiliate you and force you to swallow that cum, you need to serve me now. That's what I'm looking for.
Slaves, this would be a great opportunity for you to become my new "O".

Your mistress awaits...

Free 10 Minute Call Raffle!!!!

Yes, FREE 10 MINUTE CALL!!!

In the next 2 weeks, I will be holding a raffle to see who is the most dedicated caller. I've been receiving a lot of calls and alot of them are random and repeat callers.
Boys, you know I love it when you call, but I wanna see who's the MOST dedicated to calling me, spoiling me and enjoying spending time with me.

If your phone calls last OVER 45 Minutes, you will get a free phone call with me.
Any fetish, any style, any body, whatever you like!!! FREE!!!

Pussyboys MUST ENTER!!!

Let's see how dedicated you are!!!

Fetish Line

Phone With Cam Line

Phone Sex = Safe Sex!

Moaning, sweating, teasing and incredible orgasms… over the phone! With the right phone sex partner masturbating jumps to a brand new level of satisfaction. You connect with a real live person (vs. porn or mags) and as the client you pretty much know that the topic of conversation will be exactly what you’re in the mood for. There’s no guilt, no commitment and no risk of pregnancy or disease. Perfect, carefree phone sex fun doesn’t always happen right away. If you want a real connection and a phone “relationship” that builds over time then you should do a little research first. Finding a partner that shares your interests is the best way to insure that you aren’t wasting time and money trying girl after girl. An added bonus is that you’ll save additional time because you won’t have to talk about your likes and dislikes over and over. That doesn’t mean that each conversation can’t be about a different fantasy but it does mean that you won’t have to worry that your partner will introduce something that totally turns you off right when things are getting good.
One question that constantly comes up: Is phone sex cheating? There are answers going both ways. I’ve received “dear jane” letters from guys that decided to stop calling because they’d started dating someone great and felt that talking to me was wrong now. I’ve also talked to guys that weren’t getting anything sexual (or intimate at all) from their wives/girlfriends and decided to call because they didn’t want to cheat. To them it wasn’t cheating since there was no physical contact and no real emotional obligation with me. I consider phone sex to be “audio porn”. It’s a kicked up masturbation aid and if you keep it mentally on the same level as your hidden video stash, then it’s no different than jerking over naked women in a Playboy. You never have to worry that the Playboy model or I will ever call with a pregnancy announcement or VD test results. lol
On the other hand… for the unattached, there is GFE (girlfriend experience) phone sex which can be incredible with the right person. As you should know by now, I advertise for this. I do get those “virtual boyfriend” feelings of my own when I’m talking to someone that has so much in common with me (sexually and non). It’s fun and rewarding and emotionally safe (while being exciting) because the phone and distance are between us. I’m a horrible commitment-phobe in real life anyway. lol AND my rent gets paid. Have I mentioned before how much I love my job?

Also a lot actually prefer a LIVE GFE experience and you should also know by now, that is something that I am open to and there are ways to go about that, as long as you fit the criteria and meet all the needs that need to be met, but the safest way to get what you want without violating your relationship or whatever the case may be, phone sex is always the best way to go.